What are the taboos of an engaged woman? A list of eight engagement rituals
Under the profound influence of Confucian culture, Chinese people have always attached great importance to inheriting traditional Chinese culture.For example, in the custom of marriage, we must follow a series of procedures such as proposal, engagement and marriage.However, in this process, we should pay more attention to some taboos, such as the woman can"t say goodbye when she is betrothed to see off guests, etc., so that the two newcomers can live happily and grow old together in the future under many tests.
What are the taboos for a woman"s engagement
1.Don"t say goodbye
When the engagement ceremony is over, the woman must not say goodbye to the guests Saying "goodbye" should instead be replaced by words like "you walk slowly" or "bye bye".Because there has always been a folk saying that saying goodbye will lead to remarriage, this will not only have an impact on the emotional fortune of the two newlyweds, but also live up to the good intentions of parents, relatives and friends, which is very unlucky.
2.Avoid stepping on the threshold
The threshold in a private home means the shoulder of the male host, so when the woman is engaged, she must always be careful Remember not to step on the threshold, so as not to cause the couple to bump into each other and quarrel constantly after marriage.This will not only have an indelible impact on the married life of the two, but also damage the career fortune of the male host, thus making the family poor fortune and poor life.
3.Avoid wearing cold-colored clothes
Engagement, like marriage, is a very festive and auspicious thing, so girls must be on this day Choose a warm-toned dress to make the whole atmosphere warm and romantic, and create a happy atmosphere for the newlyweds.Although cool-toned clothes will make the woman"s skin white and beautiful, but it is very incompatible with this festive atmosphere, so it is not suitable to choose.
Detailed Table of Eight Kinds of Marriage Ceremony
gift | meaning |
Press the money box | meaning that the woman"s family is rich |
ruler | measure of happiness |
Comb | Comb mainly refers to the new couple will grow old together |
Ruyi scale | I hope the married life can be very good Ruyi |
mirror | represents the fulfillment of life |
scissors | scissors In ancient times, it was mainly used to cut clothes, and it was used here to imply that the newlyweds had a very good life after marriage. |
Dudou | It was the main instrument for measuring food in ancient times, and it is used here to indicate abundance of food and clothing |
Abacus | means a peaceful life after marriage and a reasonable plan |
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