Is there a solution to the Chinese New Year at her parents’ home? Will marrying a daughter and returning home destroy Feng Shui?
In folk customs, it is believed that married daughters cannot go home for the New Year, but this statement is incorrect, and there is no scientific basis for this.According to the current actual situation Look, it is also very common for husband and wife to go back to their respective homes for the New Year, so we don’t need to make a fuss.
Which festival can’t go back to her parents’ home to celebrate
1.New Year’s Day
A girl who gets married on the first day of the New Year in the countryside must live at her husband’s home, not at her parents’ home for the New Year, only at the beginning of the year On the second day, I can only go back after being called by my mother’s family.Because Lao Li believed that it would be unfavorable for a married girl to spend the New Year at her parents’ home.Nowadays, most of them are only children, and they all hope that their children can celebrate the New Year by themselves.This kind of custom seems to be less important.
2.The fifteenth day of the first lunar month
The fifteenth day of the first lunar month in the countryside is particularly lively, which is the time to admire the lanterns in the village and walk around with all kinds of diseases.I couldn’t go back to my mother’s house on this day, and I also saw the saying that "the lamp of my mother’s house is nothing but the roots of my mother’s house".This can’t be avoided in rural areas.In fact, it’s so evil, it’s just thinking.
3、February 2
February 2 when the dragon looks up, he can’t go back to his mother’s house.This custom was used to let the daughter-in-law go back to her in-law’s house earlier, and later it became a custom.The in-law’s family will also pick up the daughter-in-law on February 2, which is also called picking up the aunt.In fact, I started working in the fields after February 2, and my daughter-in-law also needed to control the affairs at home.
4.Qingming Festival
In rural areas, Qingming Festival is taken very seriously, because it is also the day to worship ancestors.A married girl can’t go back to her mother’s house to go to the grave, and her mother’s house is also afraid that others will gossip and make others think that there is no one in her family.
5.Dragon Boat Festival
In rural areas, there is a saying that the fifth day of the fifth month is the day to govern your mother-in-law.In fact, this day is to commemorate Qu Yuan.I can’t go back to my mother’s house on this day.If I go back on this day, it will be bad for my mother-in-law.The village pays the most attention to filial piety.
6.Half a year
There are many rural customs that are popular for half a year, which also means that half a year has passed.On the first day of the sixth month of the lunar calendar, although it is half a year, it can also carry the year, and it is not possible to return to her parents’ home on this day.
7, July 15
July 15 is the Ghost Festival, and you can’t go back to your parents’ home on this day.It is impossible to find out what the reason is, but there are still people who still follow such a custom.
8, August 15
In the countryside on August 15, you can’t go back to your mother’s home, because in the past, the rural people paid attention to "married girls, spilled water".The married girl is an outsider, and August 15th is the day of family reunion, so she can’t go back to her parents’ home.Moreover, if he returned to his mother’s house on August 15th, he would be used as a joke by his neighbors.Don’t worry too much about these now, women are also in the sky, who dares to say that a daughter is not a family.
9.Double Ninth Festival
The Double Ninth Festival in rural areas is also called Girls’ Day.You can’t go back to your parents’ home on this day, but your parents’ family is afraid that her daughter will get angry at her husband’s house, so there will be the custom of sending flower cakes.Customs vary from place to place, and in some places, you can go back at will after three years of marriage.
10.Winter Solstice
In the countryside, there is a saying that "the winter solstice is not winter, and the father-in-law will die during the winter.".I have always wondered, what does it have to do with my father-in-law if I don’t go back to my parents’ home on the winter solstice? I’m afraid no one knows now, but no one will deliberately violate it.
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