Crying a lot at the beginning of the first month of 2023 will drive away the god of good fortune at home
Crying means sadness and unhappiness, so we say that crying is not allowed on auspicious days, otherwise it will have a bad meaning, especially on the first day of the first month of the new year.Crying on this day represents your 2023.Every year is not going well, so it is actually very taboo to cry this year.
Can I cry on the first day of the first lunar month
The first day of the Lunar New Year is a good day to welcome the new year, so you can’t cry at this time.If someone in the family is crying, they should stop immediately, and they should not cry all the time, it will drive away the god of good fortune in the family, which will make the life of the family more unlucky this year.Especially the first day of the first lunar month is the first day of the new year.When everything starts again, crying on the first day means that life will be difficult in the future.
Taboos on the first day of the first lunar month
The first day of the first lunar month is a very important day.There are many taboos, such as:①Take medicine.However, if it is a critically ill patient, the drug cannot be discontinued, and drug withdrawal is likely to be life-threatening.② Use scissors and needlework.I used scissors and needlework on the first day of junior high school.In the new year, I can’t escape talking and right and wrong.③Wash your hair, take a bath, and wash your clothes.If you take a bath, wash your hair, or wash your clothes on the first day of the first lunar month, your wealth will be washed away.④ If you eat porridge and gnocchi in the morning, you will have a difficult time in the coming year, and you will always stumble.You also need to eat the big rebellion left by New Year’s Eve, which is more than enough every year.⑤ Avoid chopping firewood, sweeping the floor, and taking out garbage.There is a saying that goes:On the first day of the new year, an ax splits firewood (money), and it can never come back after splitting.Sweeping the floor and taking out the rubbish are both money-losing, and will attract the broom star to your home.Therefore, it is not suitable to do these things on the first day of the first month.
How to adjust your emotions
Crying is a kind of emotional catharsis, but the inappropriate time needs to adjust the emotions properly.①Learn to divert your attention.Many times when you are in a bad mood, it is just a matter of a certain period of time.After this period of time, the depressed feelings will be relieved a lot.When the mood is up, do some other things, such as Take a deep breath, or look at the scenery outside the window, and listen to some soothing music.②Do things that make you feel happy.Don’t suppress yourself when you are in a bad mood.You must know how to regulate and vent yourself.Sometimes life needs short-term indulgence to better adjust.③Continuously give ourselves positive psychological hints.When we are in a bad mood, immersing ourselves in these negative emotions will not benefit our life at all, but will only make us depressed for a long time.Learn to actively adjust your mentality, give yourself some positive psychological hints every day, tell yourself that today is another beautiful day, and give yourself a smile in the mirror.Learning to self-regulate your emotional life will make your life better.
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