Can I stay at my natal home on the second day of the first lunar month? What should I pay attention to when returning to my natal home during the Spring Festival?
During the Spring Festival, many people will choose to go back to their natal home on the second day, that is, the second day of the first lunar month.However, there are many taboos during the Spring Festival, so in order to have a good moral, there are also some particularities about going back to their natal home, so some people It is said that you cannot live in your mother’s house when you return to your mother’s house on this day.Let’s go together to see if this is the case.
Can I stay overnight at my natal home on the second day of the new year?
On the second day of the Lunar New Year, you cannot stay overnight at your natal home.A married daughter cannot sleep in the same bed as her husband when she returns to her natal home.During the Chinese New Year, you can’t sweep the floor at your mother’s house.During the Chinese New Year or the fifteenth day of the natal family, you have to go back to your in-law’s house before lighting the lights at night, and you cannot look at the lights of your natal family.A married daughter living in her mother’s house for a long time is not good for the brother’s wealth.On the day you get married, you can’t look back when you leave the house.Looking back means that life in the in-law’s house will not go well in the future, and you will eventually come back.You cannot confine yourself to your natal family, or return to your natal family before confinement, which will bring bad luck.
What should you pay attention to when you return to your mother’s house during the Spring Festival
Go back to your natal family, in fact, in northern China, it is also called go to your natal family.It is a very distinctive custom of the Han nationality.Every year on the second and third day of the first lunar month, the married daughter will go back to her natal home, and her husband and son-in-law will go with them, so it is commonly known as the day of welcoming son-in-law.Daughters who get married on this day go back to their natal home to visit and even stay for a while.Because after the daughter gets married, she has to do housework, serve her parents-in-law, and deal with all kinds of relationships with sisters-in-law and sister-in-law.It is very hard, so the mother’s family will pick up her daughter to stay home for a few days during the festival, which is called visiting relatives.Actually rest.However, it expresses the traditional psychology of the working people of the Han nationality who generally hope to say goodbye to the old and usher in the new year and welcome a better life in the new year.It reflects a very strong affection, the real thing is "the etiquette is light and the affection is heavy", the girl’s deep yearning for her family.
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